Dating/Relationships

Is that less expensive than going out to dinner? Because it sounds just as boring.

I find dates kind of awkward and usually uninspiring. At least when you date men there's a chance you won't even make it out of the house, and just start screwing. But it's hard to know what to do with one another when you've just met and hanging with one another's friends seems even more awkward.

Probably I need to mix it up a bit. The only thing I've ever done on dates is see a movie or go to dinner. I learned a long time ago to avoid taking dates to gay bars. :D Too many distractions. That said, I think I can get away with taking a date to Guilty this Friday ... right?

hmm same ole same ole i think. Im in a relationship right now thats monogamous and im happy with it so far. I have tried alot of different types of datting and relationships and it all kinda comes down to the same thing. People get lonely doing all thier fun stuff or not fun stuff alone and so eventually when your tired enough you go well fuck this i want share this with someone other than my freinds. I mean i wish i could say it was that whole prince thing and its only eriching my life but thats not really true. I mean my guy is my prince as far as im concerned and he does make my life a helleva lot better for sure but its not all perfect. People like to present themselves as together and for some reason being needy is like a bad thing now. I don't get why that is. I mean in the end were all needy and we can all be pathetic and sad and clingy and whatever. I don't think those things are scary myself and i of all people prob should run screaming from those things LOL. Nothing against what you said joseph either so don't take what im saying personal its just observations of my own past and people i know you just reminded me of it. I tend to look at humans as wonderfull pitfull, dangerous, loving, deviant, flotsom that got it into thier heads they could think. So to be desperete or pathetic is not so bad in my opion hehehe. It is often more honest i think. Let the gore pour and then see who sticks around ya know. I don't have time in my life for people who break very easy so maybe its just me. I think all of it is fun even when its not is my 2 cents. Im here for the ride.

I think you're a lot sexier when you call yourself a whore, than a polyamorous ethical slut.

Another sentiment of dating.

I like to think of myself as on one big date with every one.
That way everyone is fair game.

I've always wanted a monogamous relationship with the few boys I've loved....but they always had roving eyes, or were downright slutty. Basically they wanted me to be there as the loyal, loving BF, but also be able to have sleazy, one night encounters on the side. I just said, "no", and walked. They still call me, to this very day. But I guess you can't have it all....you pays your money and takes your chances.

Let's just say I've lost complete faith in the gay male as far as love, relationships and monogamy go.

good fricken' point, metin. the sad fact is that most guys are not their word. they haven't taken the time to get to know themselves, they are completely stuck in their fantasies, spending their whole lives looking for some guy that doesn't even exist. as a result, they sadly cannot appreciate what's happening right in front of them. and so they flake. i was so frustrated with this that i became a hooker! people pay attention to the moment a lot more when they are shellin' out dough for it.